As my hair grew longer, I noticed a great many contradictory attitudes about long hair, but not much long hair at all. Most women seem to have issues with long hair. They consider it unacceptable for adult women to have feminine hairstyles. The fashion media insist that women need to have constantly-changing, chemically-treated hair, that having very long hair is "old-fashioned", or represents giving in to 'outmoded' traditional values, as though very long hair were something that had recently been in style, not two centuries ago. I also hear often that it's not acceptable to have long hair unless it's in perfect condition, while short, fried hair is considered fine.
Most men like long hair, a few loving it to the point of it being a fetish.
You know who you are, you're my guys.
Guys started finding me through the long hair sites I posted on, asking for pictures. I would respond by sending a pic of my hair. This happened repeatedly, but the last straw was when I sent a guy a free pic, and he IM'd me back, "Send more pics". A little voice said to me, "You should be getting paid to do these things..."
So I signed up with Niteflirt. I had no luck at first, none at all. All my listings were rejected the first time around, for silly little things that I couldn't have figured out from the way the rules were written. But not only that, they took 10 days to reject them, and 10 more days to review and decide whether they were going to reject them again.
So I went to work for a company. I started getting calls from guys who wanted me to be their Mistress, and I couldn't understand why they would want ME, when there were so many experienced Mistresses on Niteflirt and elsewhere. But they would say that it was Me that they wanted, because I was a natural. So I started moderating a chatroom, listening to dommes, and finding out what buttons submissive have that need being pushed. Oh, what fun I have pushing a guy's buttons!
Now this company I was working for was one that put me on Niteflirt. They wrote all the listings and managed the accounts, so to speak, because things were always happening that anybody in their right mind would say was bad management. I could list them endlessly, but there were so many I'd never finish. Not only that, but I wasn't getting enough calls to pay my bills.
So when the company finally folded, bouncing one paycheck and not writing me the next, I turned on my own accounts, started taking calls, and I haven't looked back. Here I am.
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